do the thing if it's worth taking risk, then risk! when you think it's good to take chances now and not the next day then do it know.. most people and that includes me was too afraid to take risk, too scared to take chances and do the decision making now. why? because of the reason that they can't blame anyone if the game wouldn't work it out well! and no one can take the name blame..
if you think you still feel something for her/him and your too undecided to take one more chance then don't, if you risk then risk, it's a matter of making things surely good for you. If you say you don't then don't give so much explanation people might think you still want but afraid.. No one wins if there's no loser and vice-versa; life is a game plan and all we need to do is play the game and ready to take that challenge, if it works u win if it doesn't then accept the fact that u loose.
One I accept about life is that, take all the happiness then if your still unhappy then search for it, there's no ending in finding, it's a cycle that made the search so unpredictable.. In any ways we never satisfied in everything, if we got a short lived relationship we complain for we wanted to have a long good for lasting love-relationship ahead and when we get what we wanted we complain because it's too boring, nothing spectacular happens, that we were in the stagnant, stuck relationship..see? that's people, that's too human, and when all recovering is coming we want that person back to were they belong in our hearts.
I always had this funny thought that life is full of ironic circumstances and that situation is too funny when you look back and trace where it belongs...
why it works to take the risky part, me I always take risk of finding and having, I don't want to take where the river flows as they say, i don't want wind take me where does it want to take me.. I believe that taking a struggle to go somewhere you want to go is worth it that being there because wind blows you to where you are... I'm not against on going where the river flows and flying where the wind blows but then LIFE IS A BATTLE FIELD you have to fight for what you want, for what you like for what you think is for you and when things wont fit in or things wont leads you to the path that you want to take, a soldier knows when and where to cease a fire...
When you ask me if I am in the position where you are, if I would take chances? or would I fall back again... I'm not against in holding on, it's natural, it's a prerogative to make, it a choice because life is a choice happiness is a choice go were you are happy and fit in, but when it doesn't work why hold on? if in the first step it stumble, learn to take another step but when it doesn't then learn to let go..... If you're hurting but you're happy on that then go, why ask someone who doesn't understand what you feel? people can make advices but in the end of the day, you end up setting on that corner and the decision leads you there...
people are different, that makes us unique, people strive to understand but what matter is you know what you want, you know what you like, and you know what makes you happy... that's the main goal in life BE HAPPY.
me personally, I'm happy being the 3rd person of every story, I mean I'm happy seeing people happy and in love, I'm happy being sad or I'm happy being me... that's me. it's for the people to understand and people to take any choice to be with me or not. It's risk to be different but at least it's worth the risk...
To whoever you are and To you:
Take chances, If that makes you happy, Take steps just to make life more memorable; If you re still bitter about it then fix to make it sweeter, do the plan B if plan A doesn't work... I'm not the expert but I had this viewpoint as a girl, as woman, as a ex-lover as a friend, as a human...
TRUE HAPPINESS IS A LONG TERM HAPPINESS.. just take risk, experiment you just don't know what happen next but when you look back you can put a genuine smile in your lips saying; I've been there once and it makes me happy..
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